Actually, after talking about the different way it took the stain with Mom, she finally said that room may have been birch or maple instead of red oak.
I found a picture of a birch countertop stained with Truetone, and to me the way it colored the rings and the wood between the rings looked just like the small area I had stained. But clearly I’m no expert.
I planned to do the dining room later anyway, so I suppose I have some time to think about color/stain differences. What worries me is there is more 3.25” t&g in a hallway connected to the living room. I definitely don’t want that difference in color between those two. I might have to use the red oak I planned to use to patch the dining room to replace the planks in the hallway, and use those planks to repair the stuff in the dining room?
This is going to setback the project, which is disappointing but seems to always happen.
How hard is it to tear up planks like that carefully enough to re-use them? Think they are nailed in at an angle through the t&g. Thanks to anyone who replies!