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Which one is best and why?
Gluing is BEST for the absolute most solid feeling and holding the flooring down and in place. It's NOT the best when you factor in cost, extra labor, clean-up difficulty and damage to subfloors if you ever need to remove any boards. I've nailed (stapled) down 5/8" bamboo succesfully quite a few times and it was a solid installation. No squeeks when using my Bostitch M111 FS with 1&1/2" staples
2) No.
3) #15 asphalt felt is the recommended generic underlayment paper for nailed down wood floors. If gluing, you could consider gluing down cork first then gluing down the bamboo. BIG expense on adhesives as you must use the same type. Nailing through a cushoin defeats the purpose as the fasteners will transmit any sound. Why not insulate the ceiling in the basement and use acoustic tiles for a ceiling?
4) Purely subjective. Dry lay the wood there and do what looks best to you.
5) Depends on the type of threshold you have. If it were higher and squared off, I'd be tempted to commit a flooring sin and butt the wood net to it. Or fab a mini reducer to cover your expansion gap. When working with floors, I often need to custom make thresholds, reducers and trims of all types to make a situation work.