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I understand that if the staple would be in the corner of the base of the tongue, it would be flush with the top of the tongue
Sorry, I should have been clearer:
When the pressure was too high, the staple would be OVERcountersunk, which would also crack the tongue.
With pressure and position correct, the staple is driven into the corner and countersunk JUST ENOUGH to be into the tongue and clearing the groove of the next board, without cracking the tongue.
Note that the head of the staple does not have to be COMPLETELY countersunk below the surface, because the groove of the next board has a slightly beveled surface at the contact point. Also, I suppose that even if there was a slight contact, the adjacent board would get dented in slightly by the head of the staple when the board is seated into place with the mallet and a tapping black. I was POUNDING the boards up next to each other pretty forcefully, not just "tapping" them into place.
PS: My HF stapler has the "relief" that Gary refers to.