The only problem with grinding that way is your really guessing. It's very possible that the slab is heaving more heavily on one side of the crack, it can also change, along the crack, and be higher on the other side of the crack. It's pretty tough to predict rhyme or reason. Usually when one side of the crack shows an edge, that is the side to grind, but dont totally bank on that... The other side can be low
I would suggest sliding the straight edge , perpendicular, up to the crack. This way you can see when the gap is starting ,at the bottom of the straight edge, as it approaches the crack. Mark that point, ( on the
front of the straight edge ), along that high area ,for grinding reference.
The manuf. tolerance is not in reference to the direction you are laying the plank, but in ALL directions.