First off welcome to the site Edgefloors. I kinda missed your posts. I am just down the road from ya.
Next, what I do is write on the invoice the manufacturers requirements for the rh. Make sure it is in that zone when you install it, document it with pics, time date stamp, pics with identifiable background. Thats just to protect your butt. I used to do those kind of inspections of which you speak. Thats the very reason I stopped doing them. I could not do that knowing the wood is manufacturerd so poorly it delaminates in a dry zone. Worst case scenerio it should only check the finish and maybe small splits.
So if it is in the zone when you install it, course you have pics of the meter in the wood registering the MC and rh with temp using a professional grade hygrometer and pin meter. Either the interior is at the levels you need without a humidifier in there or you bring in a humidifier. I like to get them to purchase one. After that it's their baby.
Next is the UBC. If they sell it here it must be able to "perform" in this zone. They are on the hook for it, yet this is a complicated fight. We see consumers come here practically on a weekly basis posting the very same issues you have.
Finally.....there are manufacturers that are manufacturing to the hpva standards and have this is their literature with lifetime structural warranties. It's tough trying to educate clients when all they are seeing is how much money they can save by buying cheaply made wood.
This guy came here awhile ago and I pointed him to the (ANSI/HPVA EF 2009) standard. I think he is having a difficult time resolving the same issue your having.
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